Last December, I had a heart-to-heart conversation with my husband, and I confessed something that had been bothering me for a while: I wanted our upcoming year to be filled with more fun and laughter. It might seem like an odd thing to say, but I realized that somewhere along the winding path of adulthood, we had lost touch with the simple joys that once defined our lives.
Adulting, as we all know, can be a relentless journey. Bills, work, and endless obligations tend to cast a shadow over the lightheartedness we once knew. We get so wrapped up in the responsibilities of being a grown-up that we forget how to let loose, laugh without inhibition, and savor the present moment.
That's where "kidulting" comes into play. It's a concept that's been gaining traction, and it resonates with me deeply. Kidulting encourages adults to reconnect with the child within, to explore activities that we might have deemed reserved for children. It's about revisiting the simple pleasures that brought us immense happiness during our youth.
Kidulting isn't just a passing trend; it's a reminder of the significance of playfulness in our adult lives. Engaging in these activities can serve as a kind of therapy, relieving stress, sparking creativity, and reigniting that childlike sense of wonder that might have dimmed over the years.
Since embracing kidulting, my life has transformed in delightful ways. From spontaneous dance parties in our kitchen to playing “Marco Polo” in the pool, these experiences have breathed new life into our days.
If you're feeling inspired and eager to inject more fun and laughter into your life, here are some personal recommendations to get you started:
In a world where we often take ourselves too seriously, kidulting is like a breath of fresh air in a stuffy room. So, why wait? Embrace your inner kidult today, and you'll find that laughter, joy, and a sprinkle of silliness are the best antidotes to the serious side of life. Remember, growing older is mandatory, but growing up? Well, that's entirely optional!